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5 Terrible Reasons to Surrender Your Pet

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Lorie Grefski lives in Pensacola, FL and is a passionate animal welfare and rights advocate.... Read More

7 Terrible Reasons to Surrender Your Pet
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We can come up with a million reasons why it’s a great idea to adopt a pet. They keep us company, they give us someone to talk to (seriously, dogs and cats really are the best listeners!), they cheer us up, they are great snugglers … the list goes on.

But then, there are the “reasons” for pet surrenders, too many of which leave us shaking our heads, wondering why certain people were even allowed to adopt a pet in the first place. Some of the choice responses we’ve heard are: “The dog pees too often,” “She eats too much,” “It’s annoying to clean the litter box.”

…Really? REALLY? We know our Green Monsters would never do such a thing, but you all know exactly what we’re talking about.

Here are some popular reasons for pet surrender that are avoidable and can be worked around. Whether it’s medical, behavioral, or habitual, there’s usually a solution to the problem that allows the pet to remain part of the family.

1. We’re Moving

The most obvious solution to this problem is to find a place that will allow your pet to move with you.  Always be sure to look into pet policies before you sign a lease.

If you’re looking at apartments, make sure you know all the weight restrictions and the limit on the number of pets that are allowed. Sometimes you can negotiate with the landlords to make exceptions, but knowing all the facts from the get-go is crucial. If you try to convince a landlord to allow a Great Dane when their restrictions match the standards of a Chihuahua, it might not be realistic. Even when considering breed bans, there are options.

If you have a bully breed, check into renting a house over an apartment. Often, individual landlords will make exceptions if you prove you’re a responsible pet guardian and have dog’s vaccinations up to date.

2. The Pet is Destroying My House

Excessive chewing is usually a behavior that is triggered by some form of stress or frustration. Consider whether or not you have recently changed your pet’s schedule. Have you recently started a new job that requires you to be away longer than the animal is used to? Perhaps the solution to the chewing problem is as simple as getting more exercise or play time outside.

If nothing has changed that would cause your pet to act out in this way, consider working with a behaviorist or trainer to pinpoint the root of the problem and concentrate on fixing it that way. Remember, you made a life-long commitment to your pet; abandoning them for such a small reason is just unfair.

3. My Cat Pees EVERYWHERE

While it might seem like your cat is acting out just to spite you with this one, there is a good chance that they might just have a urinary tract infection. Start taking careful notes and seeing if your cat is urinating more frequently or if they’re just avoiding the litter box completely.

After you take them to the vet for a checkup and rule out any infection, consider the possibility of anxiety. Either way, your vet should be able to offer some viable solutions. You can also try some of these natural remedies for stress and anxiety.

4. We’re Having a Baby

Some people think that when you have a baby, it means that your pet will be instantly jealous and pose some sort of threat to the little newborn. But more often than not, the babies end up having an extra bodyguard

New parents may also have concerns about exposing their newborns to “germs” or “allergens,” when in fact, studies have shown that children who grow up with a pet during their first year of life have a much stronger immune system and suffer from 31 percent less respiratory tract infections later in life.

Just because you have a human bundle of joy on the way doesn’t mean you need to give up your fur baby. Yes, while you’re pregnant, you may need an extra hand with caring for your pets, but pregnancy is a temporary thing; a pet should not be. Consider doggie daycare or hire a pet sitter to help out with walks, or a pet nanny to come stay with them while you are in the hospital. Giving your pet ample time to adjust to life with a new little human in the picture is the key to a harmonious relationship. They might be a little confused at first, but as long as you make an effort to pamper and play with your cat or dog, they will take the transition in stride.

5. My Pet’s Too Old

First of all, think about the fact that one day you will be old and sick too. Should your family dump you in the middle of nowhere because of this? Of course not. Many senior pets live out their final years with plenty of vim and vigor and should not be discounted because of their age. If your pet is sick and suffering from old age, a consultation with the vet may be in order rather than a trip to the shelter. Check out these six tips to help you adjust to living with a senior pet. It might take some getting used to, but you’ve loved your pet for their entire lives, so why stop now?

Finding a Solution for You and Your Pet

Regardless of the situation you find yourself in, you owe it to your pet to make things work. Part of this means making sure you can fully commit before adoption; the other part is simply following through and exploring your options to ensure the health and happiness for the life of your furry family member. If the roles were reversed, you know that your pet would do it for you.

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  1. OMG, i would never give my baby away. I have a 9 year old female maltese which last year cost me over $4,900 in medical bills. As of today, she has arthis in her back legs, and neck. I have put her on a diet lost so far 1.5 pounds, she is weight about 7.9 pound, I sill have 1 more pound to lose. OUR 15 mins walks take us about 1 hour to get around the block, I do not rush her, let her take her sweet time, it doenst bother me, nor the medical bills, She is my doggie daughter and as long as she is with me, I will give her the best life I can. I knew when I got her, what i was getting myself into. She has showed me to love again, trust again, and most love myself, so do to that, its her time, for mommy to take care of her. LOVE your babies….they are not a toy.

  2. I agree that people treat their animals (and often other people, including their families) like objects. A pet is not a stuffed animal, it has feelings and needs, and if you are not prepared to meet those needs, don\’t get a pet. Having one in your life can give you the greatest joy — they\’re funny, loving and devoted — but only if you know how to love them. Abandoning them is not necessary unless you\’ve managed to collect way too many, in which case you really need professional help.

  3. The one glaring problem with this list is that the person has to WANT to keep their pet. In this \’throw-away\’ society people get tired of the family pet, discard it and get a new exciting one….until that one too becomes too familiar. I own a rescue/sanctuary and people make up the most ridiculous stories as to why they have to get rid of their pet. In my opinion, 8 out of 10 surrenders are simply because it\’s easier to just get rid of the animals than to deal with whatever the issue is.
    Pets are for life.
    Donna Mead
    Desert Rescue Animal Sanctuary
    http://www.desertrescue.org